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Feeling naked and free?

*********rial wrote:

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Hey JOYclubers, there are people who really enjoy being naked. Like, really really enjoy it. As in, they would prefer to be naked at all times. Maybe you're one of them?

****ssy wrote 11 hours ago

It took me a long time to be comfortable being naked. but a summer in Berlin with the nudist friendly lakes and sex party venues was a game changer.

New at the JoyClub? Welcome!

*****ich wrote:

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It's nice that you registered at the JOYclub and found your way here. From now on you are a part of our exciting community. Congratulations! We are happy that you are here.

*******yCT wrote 12 hours ago

Hello Joy Clubbers!

Exploring fantasies with erotic literature?

*********rial wrote:

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Hey JOYclubers, there's a lot of space in your head for your wildest, sexiest imaginations and fantasies in your head. But why keep them there? Our recent livestream guest Lisa Opel has found an outlet for all that : erotic literature!

*********nots wrote on 11. November

Hi everyone We are friendly easygoing and definitely not time waister couple, we are from London but now 10th nov till 16th November in Antalya…

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Nudism - being naked and free

19 November 2024

Nudism says: being naked means freedom. What is really behind this closeness to nature? A genuine nudist reveals in an interview.
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****ssy wrote 11 hours ago:

It took me a long time to be comfortable being naked. but a summer in Berlin with the nudist friendly lakes and sex party venues was a game changer.

Swinger Symbols - how to spot a swinger in the wild!

*********rial wrote:

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Hey JOYclubers, living the swinging lifestyle can be a wonderful addition to one's sex life. And if you're part of the community, you should be proud to be living your sex life in a way that's fulfilling to you!

****Zyy wrote on 3. October

Dear Community, As this thread unfortunately never really took off in the right direction, we have to close it here.

Do you ever watch fetish films?

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I've been interviewing a beautiful couple who run London Fetish Film Festival and it made me realise I know very few films where fetish and BDSM is the focus. Especially in an artistic and open minded way.

****ssy wrote 11 hours ago

Ah so many suggestions from @***ox thank you! And @*********nots the London Fetish Film Festival is running 13-15th December.

How far do you travel to play?

******nks wrote:

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After a weekend of much fun where several had travelled far to play, it got me wondering. How far do you travel to play? Do you fly, Uber or walk? When the urge and desire is there, what’s a few countries or continents between play friends?

*********nots wrote 18 hours ago

I am happily fly to any destination while combining play and tourism. So if one or the other does not work out, I am not disappointed.

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What's a brat?

11 November 2024

The Brat spices up a BDSM session. She role-plays a rebellious brat who needs to be tamed. Sounds nerve-wracking? Read more!
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*********nots wrote on Sun, 17. November:

I am called a brat by my dom sometimes but I have to say I do not like being one as I am truly comfortable being a very sub sub! Being bratty interferes with the dynamic I am seeking, to be honest. But this is just me!

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Halloween Photo Contest Winner

*********nots wrote:

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And the winner is... The wonderful Martina is going to receive her gift via post this week. CONGRATULATIONS to you Martina and HUGE THANKS to everybody who has participated- you all looked incredible! Here again the gallery:

******nks wrote on Tue, 19. November

Oh wow, congrats! Can we have a photo of Martina with her new gift please!

*********nots wrote:

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Do you guys play games? I mean not ball games and not mind games, but board games! Adults leisurely are playing more and more boardgames. Such a great way to spend quality time together and reconnect!

*********nots wrote on Tue, 19. November

Interesting idea @******nks - A dirty play in the mud is the most primal experience I can think of.

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SEXCAPADES with Lisa Opel

22 October 2024

Exploring your fantasies in erotic literature - Lisa Opel is a pro at doing just that! Watch back her livestream where she reads from her erotic novel, and learn what it means for her to write down her dirtiest thoughts.
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*********nots wrote on 11. November:

Please post your request into a relevant forum Or post a date listing here Thanks

Getting wet to get wet!

*********rial wrote:

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Water has many great uses. But next to keeping us alive and being able to swim in it, did you know there’s a kinky side to it for some people? This week’s article’s author Venus Libido is a true water lover - in every sense.

*****888 wrote on Mon, 18. November

Who is the best photographer for erotic and sensual pictures

*****nga wrote:

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We are interested in a very TOP photographer for some erotic, sensual pictures taken. Who would be the very best? Anybody knows?

****ek wrote on Sun, 17. November

Valencia, Spain. Strongly recommend. https://www.instagram.com/bulingciaga?igsh=bzI3bTZ3aHd4Z3Rh

What's makes you feel comfortable at a play party?

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As a non-binary person, I sometimes find it challenging to navigate party scenes. How has your experience been?

*******fer7 wrote on Sun, 17. November

@*********nots will do! ✨🤙

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Orgasm as a Tool to Heal - with Guided Masturbation

10 October 2024

Many women feel disconnected from their bodies due to stress or trauma. This article explores how guided masturbation and experts' insights on touch, fantasies, and sexual energy can help you reconnect and heal.
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*****123 wrote on Sun, 17. November:

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Are you a brat?

*********rial wrote:

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Hey JOYclubers, the word "brat" has gained quite a lot of popularity with the release of the eponymous album by hyperpop singer Charli XCX.

*********nots wrote on Sun, 17. November

I am called a brat by my dom sometimes but I have to say I do not like being one as I am truly comfortable being a very sub sub!

Guided Masturbation?

*********rial wrote:

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Hey JOYclubers!

*****123 wrote on Sun, 17. November

😀😀😀👍👍👍

Age play in BDSM

*********rial wrote:

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Hey JOYclubers, ever engaged in age play? Whether as a little, a middle, a caregiver or dom: age play is probably one of the most popular types of BDSM role plays there is.

*****ika wrote on 13. November

@*****ika I´m very sorry for it. You mentioned almost lack of rules and frame.

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Figging - Sex with ginger?

25 September 2024

Figging involves inserting ginger vaginally or anally to trigger pain and pleasure. Are you interested? Read more here!
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****VB wrote on 4. November:

Do you have two profiles

Let's write an erotic story together - a JOYclub challenge!

*********nots wrote:

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*********nots wrote on 11. November

Sabrina nodded and then leaned onto the window frame with her back and then began speaking: "Time to play" She started making rounds behind…

Conscious kink in Portugal and Spain

*****_ju wrote:

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A thread to share opportunities for workshops, trainings and meetings that focus on self-development, deepening emotional intelligence and somatic practices in Portugal and Spain.

***ig wrote on 11. November

If you want to learn about rope and bondage, i would suggest to follow knoty.pt There are regular munch, workshops and more promoted by them.

Have you ever orgasmed from nipple play?

*********rial wrote:

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Hey JOYclubers, how important is nipple play for you? Some are super sensitive with this particular erogenous zone, others barely care for it. And even others even ORGASM from its stimulation.

*******egar wrote on 10. November

Yes my lady often gets so wet we need a towel. As she says, her nipples are connected to her pussy.

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Symbolism in the Swinger Community

21 August 2024

Explore the world of the swinger symbol and their significance! These are the top 5 symbols of the swinger community.
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****Zyy wrote on 3. October:

Dear Community, As this thread unfortunately never really took off in the right direction, we have to close it here. Thank you to everyone who has commented on this topic in an appropriate and respectful manner.

Fairies, dragons and steamy sex

*********nots wrote:

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Sex with dragons, vikings or full on blood play with vampires? Welcome to the world of Romantasy - where fantasy meets Romantasyand the result is wonderful naughty, steamy smut.

********Luna wrote on 10. November

Thank you for sharing that list @********Luna!

Swingers clubs - events in Copenhagen

*****mmy wrote:

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Hi! Hej! Who has experiences, recommendations about swingers scenes in Copenhagen. I found only 2 clubs and don’t know what to think. Have you ever been in those clubs? It is worth to go?

*****mmy wrote on 9. November

I’m planning to. Tucan is not in Copenhagen. So first my idea was to check swingers in city where I live.

The Magic is where you make it. (More of a blog post)

*********tsman wrote:

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I know this is normally a platform for just talking about subjects of the kinky variety 😂 however I hope that sharing this will potentially touch some similar souls or inspire. and apologies in advance for this rant being in English.

********Luna wrote on 7. November

Thank you for your words… I can really feel every word. So true! I wish you a nice day! Cheers Luna

Honest first pegging experiences

*********nots wrote:

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A good old well made strap on should be part of any sex drawer. At least it is part of mine! Presuming one is 'in action' with a man, it is used for pegging right?

********Luna wrote on 7. November

yes, I have experience with that, but only with toys myself and not through anyone else...

*********rial wrote:

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Have you ever found yourself wondering: Is polyamory right for me?

*****inx wrote on 4. November

I have been poly since 2008. At this point, my opinion is that you get to pick your poison. Both monogamy and polyamory offer medicine.

Castleevents Eyes Wide Shut Party 2024

*********ebee wrote:

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Hey, has anyone had any experience with Castleevents as of lately? :) We are thinking of going later this year and the planning/location of the event seems top notch, although pricey.

*****nga wrote on 4. November

We have been to 6 parties of Castleevents and we can say that they are fun. Worth going!

Ginger - spicy in more than one way?

*********rial wrote:

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Hey JOYclubers, what do you associate with ginger? Sore throats? Curry? Maybe Christmassy gingerbread? Well, that might change now. Figging is a sexual practice that involves inserting the spicy root into your vagina or anus.

****VB wrote on 4. November

never tried it, but would love to find a play buddy, female, to try on the giving and receiving end together during an evening meet.

Scary / sexy Halloween movies

*********nots wrote:

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Wilspanks and I are going to indulge on our annual Horror movie night. The weekend is for the mad parties but that special day is reserved for an indulgent evening on the sofa. We love a bit of good horror particularly if it comes with spice!

*****a40 wrote on 2. November

Try Lifeforce (1985)

Rough or soft lesbian sex- first experiences?

*********nots wrote:

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A recent survey found that 11.5 percent of women, ages 18 to 44, said they've had at least one sexual experience with another women in their lifetimes.

***rn wrote on 2. November

My first experienc with a woman was a threesome when I was 18, didn't appreciate the experience until last week when I had a one on one with my…

Tantra Massages - worth it?

*********rial wrote:

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Hey JOYclubers, tantra is a super popular topic in the sex-positive environment, as it's a practice that is especially conscious and mindful. But what is a tantra massage really like?

******nch wrote on 1. November

I asked but I haven't doing it but I would be try it 🙄😊

Better together?

*********rial wrote:

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Masturbation is something you do in private, on your own, in your bedroom, where no one sees you - at least that’s what we’re taught.

****79 wrote on 31. October

Guten Morgen ☕☀️

December in Malta

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I will be traveling to Malta in the winter and was wondering about the LS scene over there. Are there any LS clubs?

*******288 wrote on 31. October

Hallo, I will be in St. Julian’s from 28.11. - 03.12.2024. I am open for couples / female / male. Maybe we can have a nice party. Greetings, Jochen

''Trick or Treat'' Halloween photo contest

*********nots wrote:

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Dear JOYclubbers welcome to my favourite time of the year- Halloween! There are so many fabulous parties in the UK and London around that time. Also many sexy ones!

Sharing your girlfriend?!

*********nots wrote:

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As a girlfriend myself, I’ve long wondered what it’s like to share a bed with another man or woman! MMF, FFM, MFM - whatever combination works, I’m all for the experience.

*********hare wrote on 24. October

WI_24: as we play together and solo I would say the first couple times of group play we were ok. Both were having fun with each other and the others.

Best pegging positions

*********nots wrote:

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New to pegging? Or some experiences have been made as this post shows? Here are my picks for the top five positions to ease you into it... Pegging is an awesome way to stimulate the P-spot and make your partner come like a vulcano!

*********nots wrote on 23. October

@*******_MFM Hehe *boogie* Many thanks!

Clubs and places to visit in Amsterdam

********_Ivi wrote:

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Hello all, we are visiting Amsterdam for a weekend at the beginning of October. Looking for some recommendations on clubs worth visiting and what to do in the city. Any advice would be much appreciated.

**********lease wrote on 23. October

We visited Fun4Two this summer and the positive thing with the club was the people who were there. Sexy and friendly atmosphere.

Self spanking techniques

*********nots wrote:

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Who loves a good spank? I know I do! But sometimes my partner isn’t around to spank me and got me wondering, how do you spank yourself? Not so easy as the body isn’t designed to be that flexible but it is possible!

*********nots wrote on 21. October

simply take a whip or leather belt and scourge yourself by throwing it over your back, like the self-chastiser did in the "good ol' times…

Do women like DP?

*********nots wrote:

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Do you JOYclub ladies actually like DP? Since I have been looking for an MMF that aspect of being penetrated by two men simultaneously plays a big role and is a big turn on in that experience. However, is it actually enjoyable?

*******rzg wrote on 19. October

I am lucky that my wife achieves orgasm anal as well as vaginal. That's why we love DP, when there is no third party we use a dildo and my cock.

I (M31) had first ONS with her (F23) after break up with GF

******e13 wrote:

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Who is a sexy BOOK WORM?

*********nots wrote:

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Autumn is here and the gloomy weather in the UK makes us want to curl up on the sofa with a good book - an erotic book, in my case.

*********enna wrote on 19. October

Cherise Sinclair’s “Masters of the Shadowlands” was already mentioned. Have you ever tried to read Joey W. Hill ?

How do you deal with a horny hangover?

*********nots wrote:

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Ever woken up after the night before with a rock hard cock or needing to rub yourself to orgasm to distract you from the splitting headache? - - You’re not alone. Hangover horn is real!

*********nots wrote on 18. October

. I always save a little bit of . turn up the heaters, turn on the sound system; lubricate one of my many dildos.

Crossdressers- wearing lingerie daily

*********nots wrote:

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Crossdressers and male bodied people at kink events do wear lingerie mostly in a submissive context like Sissies as seen at Femdom events. They style and adapt female lingerie from frilly trims to lacy and sheer materials nicely.

********Luna wrote on 18. October

I tried wearing lingerie with my toy but without success, this is the result...

What do you consider large or small?

*********nots wrote:

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An online UK wide survey states: ''The average flaccid penis size is around 3.6 inch, or 9.16 cm, from base to tip. When it comes to flaccid circumference, the average man measures in at around 3.7 inch, or 9.31 cm.

Guest wrote on 10. October

To make me choke which is addictive the cock has to be more then 6 inches, gagging is very addictive and to let a cock grow in you mouth with…

Your own FANTASY story

*********nots wrote:

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As an extension to my thread I am sharing the promised erotic story It is about a fantasy about an encounter with a mistress at her dungeon. It is not a story, not a fantasy, it is a glimpse into something that may or may have not happened...

Guest wrote on 10. October

I use to have a mistress, I went to her house and I was told what to wear and was lead on a lead and told to get in the back of her estate car, I was…

New here and could really do with some advice

*********rCane wrote:

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So I need some help understanding the lifestyle in Germany.

****17 wrote on 7. October

Hi ever heard of the coconuts and peaches theory? Germans (Swabians even more - I'm a Swabian) are the coconuts.

Fantasy Story: Don't hang up

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*********nots wrote on 7. October

Here is my story... Please do contribute! https://www.joyclub.com/en/forum/t3285116.your_own_fantasy_story.html#p59216995

best sex clubs in Frankfurt for Hotwire Fun

*****and wrote:

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We are coming to Frankfurt on March 29 for a few days/nights, staying in Steigenberger Hotel and looking for hot sex clubs to attend for Hotwire to have fun with men

*********sire1 wrote on 6. October

Would love to meet you in London Write me ...

Luxembourg, Trier, etc.

*******k_rp wrote:

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Hello to all, Pardon me for writing in English, but I am interested if anyone knows a club near to Trier or not so far away.

Swingers clubs in Berlin

*****g77 wrote:

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We are traveling to Berlin and would like to visit some nice swingers clubs. Thanks for help and ideas.

*****les wrote on 3. October

We have visited Avarus and Tempeloase several times and also Insomnia.

Spain, which clubs to visit and where Christmas / Newyear 24

*********h_Man wrote:

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A couple, plan to visit main land spain netween christmas and new year 24/25.

*******fer7 wrote on 2. October

Hi… regarding ropes BCN is plenty of events, and some BDSM small clubs.

Shibari & Sensuality - a contradiction?

*********rial wrote:

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Hey JOYclubers, if you know our ambassador Anna, you will know one thing: She looooooooves a good shibari session. And as a professional shibari practicioner, she's the perfect person to introduce the lovely April to it.

*****One wrote on 30. September

Hello there *wink*, sorry - we had to remove most of the posts as they were more or less contact attempts.

Recommendations wanted for FKK/swinger hotels in Frankfurt

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We'll visit Frankfurt an Main in October for a weekend. Is there any club or resort with hotel rooms option? We need some help to choose clubs. The main requirement is to be clean. We want to have a nice dancing area and enough space for play.

**vl wrote on 26. September

I’ve never been to Die Oase but I’ve heard very good things about this club.