Bakushi

Bitte entschuldigen Sie, aber ich werde in meiner Muttersprache schreiben, um mich besser ausdrücken zu können.

Es sollte unten eine Übersetzungsmöglichkeit geben.

Time for an update:

My path has been fortunate, and continues to mature and evolve. I’m curious where it leads.

I’ve spent time deep in the Japanese scene, and retain close friendships. But the fact is, this thing we do has no nationality. Beware the hyperbole of dogma, myths, schools and styles. It’s nonsense. Perfecting the art of tying shoelaces. Not walking in the shoes. Give a rope to kids anywhere in the world and someone will be tying, someone tied up. Did you never tie a toy? It’s a common theme that, in some, ripens to erotic fantasies in adulthood.

However, there are some things I cultivated in Japan from their societal and philosophical differences. The aesthetics and feelings of the one in, and not just the rope. Body manipulation techniques to protect, sensitise and eroticise nerves, etc. The dynamics of animal instinct and desire. For this thing we do boils down to trust, restraint, vulnerability and anticipation.

The Japanese don’t recognise the concepts, in context, of Master/Slave, or Top/Bottom. The conviction is that the players provide for and enjoy from each other in the roles they choose. One may be driver and the other passenger, but the journey is together. SM here may be all dark, serious and Rammstein. In Japan I enjoy hearing the giggles. It’s supposed to be fun; enjoyable; positive; pleasurable.

I can rig well enough, but I’m not a rigger. It’s not my motivation. The Japanese call me ‘Bakushi’ (master of restraint). But I don’t like titles. It’s just a word. I’m just me - adaptable, creative, spontaneous. My only goals that you wish to return for more, and I earn your trust, friendship and affection.

Because every person is different, every time, I can't assume I know what you want. So, the game begins with a perspective of discovery and communication. Why do you want this? It makes it individual, positive and rewarding for all parties.

My style is subtle, sophisticated and inviting, balanced to requirements between cuddly dominance and hardcore sado-erotic. I value intelligence, grace, delicacy and finesse, and love the mind fuck.

Discretion and integrity are fundamental. Everyone wants to be truly understood and respected. Not owned or judged.

Compliment one of my photos and I might respond.

I teach Shibari technique and philosophy 1-on-1 to professional dominatrix.

Our troupe is also available to book for discreet underground events and private parties with the appropriate facilities and ambience.

PM for details.

Best respects,
Sin