Intro to Kink

In this feature-length tutorial, you get to learn about the necessary basics for beginning your risk-aware exploration of kink. If you’re curious about kink and want to know more about it, or you’ve already done some exploring but are interested to learn about perspectives from someone who is a professional kinkster, trauma-informed therapist and safeguarding expert, you will benefit from this tutorial. Often misunderstood as practices that encompass unusual forms of sex, kink according to Divine Theratrix is simply one of the ways that humans play.

By Lara / Divine Theratrix

Get to know the author!

Professional kinkster + therapist empowering humans of all genders to explore, play and heal. At my east London adult playspace I help people access their authentic desires and gain a deeper sense of self-acceptance and freedom through one-on-one sessions and group workshops on kink, BDSM, animal play + more. As a sex-positive educator, coach and media spokesperson, I’m available for festival, event and workshop bookings. I also advise kink events and venues on ethics, safety and compliance and support the sex worker community as a practising lawyer.

Website: www.divinetheratrix.com
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Want to explore kink consciously?

Do you want to build confidence in how you communicate your kinky desires? Perhaps you have realised that there is more to know about consent and boundaries and want some practical tools to try out? Never tried spanking before? You get to see a demonstration of hand spanking with Divine Theratrix and adult performer Belle O’Hara.
In this video, Divine Theratrix covers:

What is kink?
How to do it
Consent
Demonstration

VIDEO TUTORIAL: Introduction to Kink

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When talking about kinky play, Divine Theratrix says:

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There is no right or wrong: there is what works or doesn’t work for you; and there is what is safe or unsafe. Being safe is the most important objective when you’re doing any kind of kinky play because kink, like life, can never be 100% safe. It’s not a question of ‘if’ something goes wrong – its more a question of ‘when’ something goes wrong

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The tools you will learn in this video will help you to create scenes with your partner or partners that anticipate and take care of each other’s needs.

Happy playing!

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