A successful hand job is much more than just putting a hand to a penis. The right hand job technique can ignite a real firework of pleasure. Try out different rhythms and intensities and discover erogenous zones that have been missed out on so far. JOYclub has some creative hand job instructions for you!
What is a hand job?
As the word already suggests, a "hand job" is technically manual labour - but in a slightly different context. In this sexual practice, the penis is stroked, massaged and masturbated by hand. Sometimes up to orgasm. A good hand job has a lot to do with empathy. Based on the reaction of your partner, you will quickly find out where their hotspots are and what brings them pleasure. If you look deep into their eyes, a great intimacy can develop.
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The three erogenous zones in the male intimate area
Even if the erect penis is the focus of action during a hand job, there are other intimate regions that crave your attention. By taking care of other regions too, you'll bring variety to the hand job. Explore together, because everyone has individual needs. There is no patent remedy for the perfect hand job. What works wonderfully for one person can be a real turn off for another. Pay attention to the verbal and non-verbal signs from your partner and actively ask what gives them pleasure.
1. Play with the balls
2. Dare to go deeper
3. Massaging the frenum
General hand job tips in advance
- Lubricant: Make it wet! Most hand job techniques require smoothness - feel free to be generous. Enough lube can also minimize over-irritation. Saliva can also serve as a lubricant.
- Vary the rhythm: Consistent movements quickly lead to a habituation effect. Bring momentum into the handwork by alternating the speed of your movements.
- Warm-up exercises: Gradually increase the intensity. Start with gentle touches and slowly increase before you enclose the penis with your whole hand and unpack more intense techniques.
- Feel, feel, feel: Vary pressure and speed, but always stay with your partner. Either they communicates directly what feels good to them or you can respond to nonverbal cues. Do they push their pelvis towards you? Do they moan? Then your technique is most likely well received.
These are the 5 best hand job techniques!
The perfect hand job is way too individual for a simple step-by-step guide. Don't put yourself under pressure, there are many ways to reach the peak of pleasure. Besides, experimenting with hand job techniques together can enrich your love life.
1. Upside down
In this hand job technique, you grab his testicles from below and massage them sensitively while circling his glans with your fingers. Try enclosing it with your fingers and performing slightly twisting movements from the wrist. Similar to squeezing an orange, but a lot gentler! The double stimulation leads to intense sensations. You can use this technique repeatedly in between other fun things.
2. Flat-handed
Take the erect penis with one hand and hold it upright. Now place the palm of your other hand against the glans. Stroking, very gentle slapping, massaging: Pay attention to what your counterpart enjoys. Change the area you're stimulating regularly to avoid overstimulation.
3. Twist again
Put both hands on the penis. Now perform a twisting motion similar to opening a bottle. Be sure to move your hands in opposite directions. This will massage the entire penis. Lubricating gel provides more suppleness.
4. Tunnel of pleasure
Ideally, your partner should lie comfortably on their back during this. Your hands and his penis should be well lubricated for this hand job technique to work best. Now start stroking with the palm of your hand from the bottom to the top. Apply gentle pressure against the penis so that it is pressed against the stomach. If possible, the touch doesn't end, meaning: as soon as one hand leaves the penis, the other one picks up from there.
5. Aaaand - the finger ring
The classic among hand job techniques: thumb and index finger form a tight ring that slides incessantly from the glans over the shaft and back up again. You can intensify this technique by placing the "ring" under the glans and pressing harder. This way, you can simulate a cock ring while simultaneously massaging the shaft with the other hand.
To increase erection, a cock ring (also: penis ring) can be placed around the shaft of the penis, the scrotum or directly under the glans. The ring provides increased blood flow there and increases receptivity to touch.
Conclusion: A satisfying hand job is in your hands!
Whether exciting foreplay or pampering program for in between: The hand job can provide intense pleasure. With the right technique and dedication, a simple hand job becomes a sensual experience that can easily rival a blow job. The advantage: A hand job runs more discreetly and can also be an exciting experience in public. So put your hand to it and look forward to getting your partner really hot and bothered!
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