After we have already introduced you to the yoni massage, we don't want to deprive you of its male counterpart, the lingam massage. We asked Samatha from Tantra_Mandala to tell us how a lingam massage is performed in his tantra school.
From the preliminary talk to the tantric massage for men
The phone rings. I answer it. You've heard about the Lingam massage, you are unsure, you have questions. I'll tell you something about Tantra. That tantra is about loving, unintentional touch. That it is about accepting everyone without judgement - regardless of appearance, color, religion, preferences.
I like to tell you right at the beginning that a Tantra massage is not about a quick orgasm, but first and foremost about a new, intense and healing body experience whereby orgasmic floating and intoxicated states are also possible.
That it is not a sexual service and the masseur/masseuse is not touched. That the massage is possible with or without intimate massage (lingam massage). That it is beneficial to let go of all expectations because this limits the range of experiences. And that I encourage you to ask questions and express any uncertainties.
We will also clarify simple organizational questions, e.g. how long the massage will take, including the pre- and post-talk, and how much it will cost. Whether the massage should be performed by a man or a woman and whether you would like to take advantage of our shuttle service to and from the S-Bahn.
You are curious and we make an appointment.
Getting to know each other intensively strengthens trust & enables you to let go
And then the day of our appointment arrives, you ring the doorbell, I open the door and you come in. We greet each other, go into the massage room, sit down on the large massage mat on the floor, have a drink and chat so that you have time to arrive in peace and we can get to know each other.
This phase is very important for you to strengthen your confidence so that you can let yourself go more easily later on and thereby increase the intensity of the experience. This phase is important for me so that I can ask you a few more questions and then better assess what the optimal massage process should be for you.
I will tell you about the course of the massage so that you have some orientation later on as to which phase we are in.
The atmosphere already invites you to let go and let yourself go without judgment. You take a shower to wash away the rest of the day's thoughts and worries and come back dressed in a kimono. The massage begins.
The massage first focuses on the back
The beginning is ritual-worshipfulEye contact, connection of souls, first touches - first standing, then sitting on the mat. Then you lie on your stomach. This begins the Sensitization of the back with various tools: silk cloth, feather, brush and fur. The touches glide gently and caressingly over your skin, taking you further and further away from the hustle and bustle of everyday life. Legs, back, bottom ... every millimeter of the body is respected and leads you to a new body experience.
Now comes the warm oil. Just spreading the oil on the skin with a lot of feeling in circular movements takes you to the next level of floating. Various massage techniques are then used: alternating between fast and slow movements, symmetrical and asymmetrical, in small circles or large sweeping movements from the very top of the back to the feet, all in the direction of flow of the meridians.
Here, touches are not only performed by hands or forearms, but by whole arms and even a body to body massage with full body contact is possible. Body to body is a special element that is very pleasurable, healing and indescribable. An element that you must have experienced in order to understand its intensity.
A bottom massage and the first contact with the lingam is the highlight of the back area. With circular movements around the buttocks and stroking movements between the buttocks, I slowly feel my way to your lingam. I use my fingertips to make a luring movement at the lingam root, while the other hand simultaneously massages the lingam root on both sides. An erection often develops at this point.
The actual Lingam massage begins
Now is the time to turn around. You lie on your back and I start to oil and massage the front of your body. The game continues with small and large movements at different speeds and intensities. Your lingam is included in all the stroking movements. The lingam massage has begun.
As with the entire massage, there is no set sequence. The various grips and techniques of the lingam massage develop more and more sexual energy in the body. The interplay is repeated again and again until shortly before ejaculation and then the energy is distributed throughout the entire body by massaging.
This gradually creates an ecstatic floating state. The sexual energy increases more and more until the man experiences a full-body orgasm, which is not always associated with ejaculation, but is experienced even more intensely because this high energy remains in the body.
Tantra massages have a long-lasting effect
Here we have reached the end of the massage. I cover you with a towel. You have time to feel in peace while I go to shower off the oil. I come back and we talk about the massage. You have the opportunity to tell me how you are feeling, what you have experienced and to ask any questions you may have. Afterwards you take a shower, get dressed and we say goodbye.
It is important to know that this experience can have a long-lasting effect. That's why I recommend that you take time and rest for yourself after the massage so that you can feel the lasting effects.
Throughout the massage, I let my intuition guide me. I observe all your reactions very closely. How is your breathing? What noises are you making, what movements are you making? Every little thing is important. I feel what is right for you next, what intensity is right and what touch should come next.
Every person is unique. Every person on every day is unique. Just as every massage is unique. Even several massages with the same person are as different as night and day.
Samatha's tantric path
The small massage practice resulting from his efforts thus developed over time to the great tantra school. Today, in a large villa in the countryside, he not only offers massages, but also a large package of various seminarssuch as:
- Tantra massage (incl. yoni and lingam massage) for beginners
- Tantra massage (incl. yoni and lingam massage) for advanced practitioners
- Tantra massage (incl. yoni and lingam massage and anal massage) for advanced practitioners
- Shiva's Room (tantra massage seminar for men only)
- Unification rituals (Maithuna rituals)
- Light Tantra since 2012
- Tantra and meditation
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