Squirting is also known as female ejaculation. We were curious whether this special type of female orgasm can be achieved consciously, so we looked at a squirting technique for you.
The G-spot and squirting
The G-spot is supposedly (this is still subject to intense scientific debate) located about 4-5 cm from the vaginal opening, up the front vaginal wall. It is not situated directly inside the vaginal wall but behind it, near the urethra. The G-spot is a tissue formation that can enlarge and stiffen when aroused, similarly to a penis. In addition, the Skene’s glands are located inside the G-spot area, so it can also be compared to the male prostate.
How to make her squirt
The JOYclub editors have explored one of the most common techniques for squirting. Please note: This is only one possible method to try and make a woman squirt.
Unfortunately, the fairer sex is too diverse to give you a guarantee for success. Those women who primarily orgasm through clitoral stimulation and don’t particularly enjoy vaginal stimulation may not be aroused by this technique at all, especially if they think they don’t have a G-spot. If the woman has already experienced G-spot orgasms, she is more likely to squirt using this method.
Intense foreplay lays the foundation
A strong and unconditional emotional bond and a very good sexual match with the lover seem to be particularly beneficial to achieve squirting. This means that if squirting can be brought on consciously, it is most likely facilitated by a strong emotional connection between the partners.
This means that you should take your time. A long and gentle foreplay, for example an erotic massage, should be your starting point. It’s about responding to your partner and building a feeling of closeness. This will help her overcome obstacles and lay a good foundation to completely "let go", as it may take a lot of trust to not hold back. The feeling before a squirt orgasm can be very similar to an urge to urinate and it can be hard to allow for this limit to be crossed.
Whether you indulge your lover with foreplay until right before orgasm or follow up with satisfying intercourse, is up to your personal preferences. The point is to love her to the edge of orgasm. Right before the point of no return, when she is visibly very aroused, your hand takes over for the following part of lovemaking.
You may succeed through intense stimulation of the G-spot
While your index and small finger are extended and both pointing towards her anus, insert your ring finger and middle finger into the vagina and bend them as if you wanted to touch the abdominal wall from the inside. Now closely watch her reactions while you feel for the particularly erogenous G-spot area. Remember: The G-spot is located about 4-5 cm from the vaginal opening, up the front vaginal wall.
Once you’ve found this zone, you should intensely stimulate it. Move your entire hand back and forth, stroke the G-spot with your inserted fingers or make slight thrusting motions. Some women like it if you push slightly on their pubic mount at the same time with your other hand. Others may feel an even stronger urge to urinate that can be off-putting. This means you should try out different techniques to get a feeling for her preferences.
The way a woman squirts varies considerably from one person to the next. Some squirt before or during orgasm, others squirt only after you remove your fingers after her orgasm. As mentioned earlier, there’s no such thing as a universal approach to squirting, only your scientific curiosity. You should also try out different positions, G-spot vibrators or dildos.
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