FFM stands for sex between two women and a man. What is often dismissed as a purely male preference can be a pleasurable experience for everyone involved. But how can a couple get to know a single woman and turn their fantasy into reality? Find out with our dating tips for a successful FFM threesome!
Tips: Finding the right woman ⬝ FFM dating at JOYclub ⬝ Positions and variants
Fancy some fun for three? Talk to each other!
So you two lovebirds are in agreement: you want to have a threesome! And now? Hapert it, how to initiate the whole thing ...
Let's rewind first. Why the threesome at all? Talk to each other and reflect on what turns you on. Which fantasies and desires should be realized? What turns you on? Does your partner have a bi-curiosity? A bi-prientation that she wants to live out? Does your he envision the whole thing as a harem scene in which he is the one being pampered?
Which one of you made the suggestion? Did the other person reluctantly agree? If so, stop and take a step back. A threesome with obstacles is not quick and sexy, but can lead to real conflict and hurt feelings.
Or perhaps a certain power imbalance plays a role? Like in a Cuckold-scene, maybe one of you just wants to watch or lovingly tormented with a little jealousy game. Maybe you have the feeling that your sex life together has fallen asleep and a new person should bring some wind into it. Or you're just generally desire for other people's skin and want to experience sex with others?
Our best tip: Be honest with each other. Not to talk each other out of the idea. But because all good sex, including group sex lives from communication and trust.
FFM dating tips - getting to know women as a couple
But for many couples, finding a second woman to play with is not that easy. It's not for nothing that single women who are ready for a threesome are called unicorns - they are said to be as rare and special as a unicorn from the world of legends. It's often easier to find one second man perhaps worth considering?
Nevertheless, there are always single women who fancy being the star guest in another couple's bedroom. Here are our best tips on how to get to know them!
Tip 1: Enjoy with caution: FFM dating among friends
Maybe you as a couple know a single woman in your circle of acquaintances that you both like. So, quite simply, Unicorn found? Not so easy. Friendship and sex mingling can be difficult for two people. Jealousy, changing friendships, hurt feelings: dating too close to home also has its dangers.
However, never say never. A good friendship can also be a great basis for an adventure together - after all, you already know each other well, have a feeling for each other and a certain intimacy is already there.
Just think carefully beforehand about whether you really want to ask a friend or acquaintance and trust your gut feeling. If you come to the conclusion that it could be a good match: go for it!
Tip 2: Dating apps and dating websites
If you find that a little emotional distance from your single woman is easier, try the regular Online dating. Many dating platforms offer the option of a couple profile or linked single profiles. Choose a few attractive photos that show you as a couple and mention your desire for a FFM on the profile - the right girl will swipe you right.
[Principles of FFM dating]
As with normal dating, the basic principles of FFM dating are Respect and consideration. Just because the second lady visits you in bed does not mean that she is just an accessory for your sexual fantasies. Be aware beforehand that she is an independent person with individual preferences.
If you have a specific fantasy that you want to realize - talk to her about it! Some women get very turned on by playing the sexual fairy godmother and fulfilling a special wish, and some will thankfully decline.
What you can't do is pretend to be single and interested in other women and only mention him in conversation or even on the first date. Many bisexual and lesbian women are annoyed by this kind of dating trickery. If you prefer to date women on your own, this is an open relationship is the better option for you.
Tip 3: Swinger clubs and partner exchange
Meeting other couples can be easier than getting to know a single woman. The constellation in which you have fun is up to you. In the Swinger club of course, sexual connections are particularly easy to make, but with a certain degree of "publicity" - you might get the one or other spectators.
Tip 4: Festivals
A more unusual tip: take a look at festivals around! It may sound strange, but everyone is probably already in a relaxed party mood due to the setting, has no time or similar stress and is open to new encounters. The atmosphere is often free and carefree, completely removed from everyday life.
The relaxed atmosphere makes it even easier for the one or other flirtation between the girls. And if the gentlemen happen to be around the corner... why not disappear into the tent together! But the same applies here: respect boundaries and needs!
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Tip 5: Stay relaxed
A sex experience that is out of the ordinary can be very rewarding for everyone involved. Feel magical. And, as we all know, magic cannot be forced: The mixture simply has to be right. The right mood, the right people, and suddenly everything that seemed impossible before becomes easy. So stay relaxed and try not to obsessively search for the perfect FFM threesome: be open to all alternatives and seize the opportunity when it arises.
Sex tips for the FFM threesome
A charming second lady has been found, you're all in the mood for each other and the atmosphere is heating up? Time to put our tips for positions and variations into action!
FFM can be practised in a quasi-heterosexual way, where the two women only have sex with the man, but not with each other. In a bisexual FFM threesome, there is more scope for everyone involved. Here are a few ideas:
- One of the women satisfies the man orally, while the other woman licked is being sucked.
- The man pleasures one of the women orally while the other woman gives him a blowjob.
- The man penetrates one of the women - vaginally or anal - and the other woman caresses and kisses the woman in the meantime.
Let your imagination run wild, much more is possible with bisexual FFM sex! For example, through the use of sex toys and strap-ons.
Prelude at the FFM
If you are into extended nudes, you should prelude FFM, as with other types of sex, should not be neglected. Depending on how aroused the man is, foreplay can involve him or can also be a purely lesbian foreplay in which the man is only indirectly involved as a spectator.
Foreplay based on the Hawaiian Lomi Lomi Nui massage, in which two masseuses massage a third person, is extremely pleasant or even arousing. two masseuses massage a third person with four hands.
Shift in focus
For a pleasurable FFM experience it is important that everyone has a high level of sensitivity. Communicate your wishes and expectations. FFM is partly characterized by the fact that the man receives little or no attention from time to time, which delays his ejaculation and makes sex longer and more satisfying for everyone involved. sex longer and more satisfying for everyone involved. for all involved.
For this reason penetrationwhich often plays a major role in heterosexual intercourse, is of secondary importance in FFM is of secondary importance. Of course, it is up to you and your preferences as to which different practices you include in FFM. Whether you focus on touching with hands, oral sex, voyeurism or penetration is something you decide together.
The idea of the steadfast man who brings both women to climax through pure penetration is a possibility, but certainly not the ideal case. Such fantasies can build up pressure and hinder pleasurable interaction. The same applies here: treat each other respectfully and attentively. Ask each other: What should our FFM experience look like?
Do you want one Threesin which the man's pleasure is the focus, it can be a variation that both women give him oral pleasure at the same time.
FFM and BDSM
It is also popular to combine FFM games with fetish and BDSM to combine. Many women find it erotic when the man's range of action is restricted by Shackles restricted in his radius of action and they tease him to the extreme with demonstrations of lesbian sexual practices and light touches. to the extreme. The women can fully enjoy exercising their sexual power. SM practices such as spanking can also be used. Of course, everything must be done in accordance with the BDSM principle safe, sane, consensual.
Which of the many types of FFM play is preferred depends on your own preferences and desires, but also on the man's potency. What is important, as with all sexual practices, is absolute voluntariness and a shared enjoyment of sex.
If you pay attention to this, nothing stands in the way of fun for three!
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