Deepthroating is considered the "royal class of blowjobs". In this sex practice, the partner's penis is completely taken into the mouth, and even far into the throat. This is not that easy, since at a certain point the natural gag reflex kicks in. Here are our tips and tricks on how you can practice the deepthroat!
In this article you'll learn ...
- how a deepthroat works,
- what tools you can use to practice a deepthroat at home,
- in which positions the deepthroat works best.
Deepthroat: 8 tips for beginners
When the penis hits the back of the throat, experienced deepthroaters take it easy: Instead of giving in to the gag reflex and taking the penis out of their mouth again, they swallow. This is how the penis finally slips (almost) completely into the throat.
How lightly or violently the gag reflex is triggered varies from individual to individual. The intensity of the reflex can be reduced through targeted training. A mixture of relaxation exercises and habituation effect ensure that even newbies can master the deepthroat after a short time. The following 8 tips can help you.
Important: A complete desensitization of the natural gag reflex is not recommended!
Tip 1: The toothbrush trick
Try to gently irritate the back of your tongue and throat with a toothbrush. In this way, you will quickly notice when your gag reflex sets in. With the narrow brush, you can now slowly get your throat used to not cramping up immediately. Repeat this exercise daily for a few weeks.
Important, danger of choking: Never put the toothbrush too deep into your throat. Not even for testing purposes! Only irritate the tongue and at most the uvula.
Tip 2: "Dry exercises" on the dildo
Of course, the best way to practice is on a living object, but maybe you want to surprise your partner with a deepthroat. Then it's worth practicing with a penis-shaped dildo.
Practice several times a week to take the dildo a little deeper into the mouth each time. If at some point the gag reflex sets in because the dildo hits the end of the throat, try to swallow. This should make the dildo slide a little deeper into the throat. Be sure to continue breathing calmly and evenly through your nose and try not to tense up. Et voilà: A deepthroat!
Safety note: Only use a dildo with a wide end!
Tip 3: Loosen up!
If you have successfully completed the dry exercises, you can now continue practicing on the "living object". Before you give your lover a deepthroat, first relax: Just before the deepthroat, pull your mouth together again to form a pout and then change to a broad grin. Repeat this a few times: This will relax your mouth muscles and prevent painful cramps.
Tip 4: Take your time
Always go nice and slow with the deepthroat. As with a classic blowjob, start by gently kissing, licking and massaging the penis. Then, bit by bit, you take it further and further into your mouth. If the gag reflex sets in, take a short break and get used to the feeling. Again, breathe calmly in and out through your nose and wait until the gag reflex has subsided. Then you can continue.
Tip 5: Use your tongue rather than your lips
The lips can be placed as a ring around the penis shaft during deepthroat, just like a usual blowjob. However, this is quite exhausting in the long run. To prevent sore lip muscles, you should rather work with the tongue during deepthroat and massage the penis from below.
Tip 6 (for men): Relax your abdominal muscles
This tip goes out to the men! Try to let your abdominal muscles relax during the deepthroat. Otherwise, your stiff penis will automatically bob upwards and push even more against the sensitive throat region of the giving part.
Tip 7: Agree on signals before starting
During deepthroat, the giving part can of course no longer talk. However, in order not to have to take the penis completely out of the throat again, you should agree on signals with your partner beforehand that indicate, for example, that the thrusting movements should be slowed down. For example, a light slap on your partner’s thigh is suitable for this.
Tip 8: Try out different positions
A common variation: You kneel in front of him. In this position, eye contact between you is also possible - an additional turn-on! Another popular option is 69, in which both of you can stimulate each other orally.
You can also lie with your back on the bed or a raised surface. Your head hangs slightly over the edge so that your partner can bend over you. In this position, due to the stretched neck, a deeper and easier insertion of the penis into the throat is usually possible.
Practice makes perfect, even with deepthroat
No one becomes a deepthroat master overnight. As with everything in life, the same applies here: Only practice and patience will eventually lead to the goal. But please, don't put yourself under pressure: It can take weeks or months to master the technique without choking.
By the way: For many fans of this sex practice, choking noises are part of the appeal when deepthroating. However, you should be aware that penetrating too deeply can also lead to vomiting or a tracheal blockage. Therefore, with deep throat, as with any other extreme sex practice, appropriate caution is required.
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