It's party time! Are you into bondage, dominance, submission or masochism and looking for a place to meet like-minded people in London? Look no further! To help you fulfill your deepest and darkest desires in real life, we’ve collected a few locations that you might want to check out.
Where to go?
London is a hub for BDSM and kink-related events, with a vibrant and diverse scene that caters to a wide range of interests and preferences. From fetish balls to dungeon parties, there is no shortage of opportunities to explore and express your desires. But which are the best?
Here are - in no particular order - eight of our favourite BDSM locations and events in London:
1. Klub Verboten
With a strict dress code and a no-photography policy, Klub Verboten offers a discreet and exclusive environment for exploring your kinks and fetishes. From BDSM play to erotic performances, this party is all about pushing boundaries and indulging in your wildest fantasies. To ensure it stays a safe space, their events are for community members only. If you're interested to join the Klub, you can become a member via their website or check out one of their social events 'Tears For Beers'.
2. Club Pedestal
This popular event is specifically designed for female domination and male submission, with a focus on creating a safe and welcoming environment for women to explore their dominant side. Club Pedestal is known for its friendly and inclusive atmosphere, and attracts a diverse crowd of kinksters. For more information visit their website.
3. London Alternative Market
While not strictly a party, the London Alternative Market is a must-visit event for anyone interested in BDSM and kink. Held on the first Sunday of every month in the heart of the city, the market offers a wide range of stalls selling everything from toys and accessories to clothing and artwork. It is a great place to socialise as well, since this market project is a meeting point for potentially like-minded people. You may keep it casual in street wear, but kinky looks are more than welcome.
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Also: They are launching a new evening of workshops right now, taking place on the Friday before the market! It includes a huge open space for learning rope among other exciting things. Check it out!
4. One Night
"One Night was born out of a love for sexual spaces, but a disdain for entitled men", a quote from their website. This event series is for women and non-binary individuals only, aiming to provide them with a safe space to freely explore their kinky side without being subjected to the male gaze.
Whenever you're practicing BDSM, there's 3 things to keep in mind:
- It should be safe: Minimize risks and avoid dangerous situations during BDSM play. At all times, the people involved should feel safe. This is especially important, since extreme physical and mental states can be part of the practice.
- It should be sane: A reasonable and sensible approach is a must. Be clear about your boundaries, and respect those of others.
- It should be consensual: Not just in BDSM, but in all sexual practices, there must be consent. It can be helpful to establish a safeword to make sure you are not going too far.
Safe, sane & consensual (SSC) is the main principle in BDSM to ensure everyone is having a good time. To learn more, check out our article on consent or our BDSM sex school tutorial all about the elements of BDSM, main rules and safety considerations.
5. Torture Garden
One of the longest-running and most iconic BDSM parties in the world, Torture Garden has been providing a space for fetish enthusiasts to express themselves since 1990. With events taking place throughout the year, Torture Garden offers a range of experiences, from cabaret-style performances to hardcore dungeon play. From newbies to experienced kinksters, anyone is welcome and free to buy a ticket!
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6. Club Antichrist
Club Antichrist offers a thrilling and diverse atmosphere for those seeking a unique nightlife experience. With electrifying performances, intense playrooms, and themed events that seamlessly blend metal vibes with fashion and fetish elements, it promises an unforgettable adventure. To discover more visit their website.
7. ZDR Events
Run by model & actress Zara DuRose, ZDR Eventspride themselves in being one of the friendliest kink events in London. Each party has a different theme, so even longterm members get their money's worth here! Next to dedicated play areas and dungeons, there's room to dance to DJs and live music, or watch risqué shows and walkabout performances. In 2020, they even won an award for Best Fetish Event!
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8. JOYRIDE
Not related to JOYclub, but still amazing in its own way, JOYRIDE is a brand new space for the queer kinky community of London to socialise, rave and play. It started out February 19th 2023, takes place every other Sunday at Corsica Studios and welcomes anyone in need of a sex positive safe space, and especially those into dance music.
Embrace Your Desires
Overall, London's BDSM scene is thriving, with a wide range of events and parties catering to all kinds of interests and preferences. From Club Pedestal to JOYRIDE, from bondage to latex, each venue on this list provides a unique journey into the realm of kink. Whether you're a seasoned kinkster or a curious newcomer, you're guaranteed to discover a diverse range of events, playrooms, and a welcoming community that celebrates sexual exploration and liberation.
So, unleash your fantasies, embrace your desires, and embark on an unforgettable adventure through London's BDSM scene. Discover a world where boundaries are pushed, passions are ignited, and the exploration of pleasure knows no limits.
Have you checked any of these places out yourself? Or have we missed your favourite party completely? Share in the forum!
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