Age play in BDSM

I’m in a Ds with my little girl for 8 years, and it s the most rich and intense relationship that we ever had. She is my couple as well.

Being Daddy Dom allows me to be in peace and full emotionally satisfied.

Awesome! Learned a lot from this

Once I met a person with whom we had a DDM relationship. He is much older than me, and my soul is much younger than my years.

I really like the DDM game (Dadfy-Dom and Middle). And I was a sub in this game (in a relationship) for a long time (more than a year).

True, my partner and I violated almost all the rules indicated by GoddessOfLight in the comment above. Our game was not designated as a game, but these were long-term relationships in roles that were sincere, and not feigned. At first, such interaction was very sweet.

I trusted my DD very much and was dependent on his favor. Over time, he began to take advantage of this and often morally punished me for minor disobedience or mistakes. He knew my vulnerabilities and pressed on them.

We did not have established boundaries and restrictions, there were no stop words. I constantly felt guilty for doing something not the way he wanted.

We had a very painful breakup (on his initiative). I don't know how he survived it emotionally, since we don't communicate anymore. Perhaps it was a game for him and he manipulated me using my sincerity and knowing all my vulnerabilities. For me, this relationship and the way it ended brought a lot of suffering.
There was no "care and support after the scene", as you already understood.

P.S. I wrote this message with pain in my soul and tears in my eyes. I poured out my soul a little into the public space, although these are very personal experiences.
I might delete this message soon🤷‍♀️.

@*****ika I´m very sorry for it.
You mentioned almost lack of rules and frame. In my humble opinion, in a Ds relationship, even in any BDSM one, it must be a clear frame, created by consensual and adapting it to the relationship/members evolution. Because if you let the waters free, when problems appear it causes a flood.

It´s petty that lot of people we learn it with lot of pain and suffering.

All my support and care ✨🫶

Thanks for your support🫶.

You're absolutely right.
Lesson learned. Conclusions are drawn.
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The reason of siffering is not the Age play, but the lack of frames in my particular case. But after all this, I hardly want to repeat the Age play again😒