Ideas for long-distance punishment?

*********nots Woman
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Ideas for long-distance punishment?
A sub is planning to go away by themselves on a little holiday and wonder how their Dom can still punish them while apart? Tasks over the phone and messages instructing kinky activities sounds great and...how about the life stream here on JOYclub and how to incorporate that into a punishment task? What it would be like to be seen by all members doing stuff in from of the camera. Very voyeuristic indeed. Would you watch? *g*
Asking for a friend... *ggg* *ggg* *ggg*
****RE Man
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That would be very triggering, maybe the live would include another sub to send a message that "you can be replaced" while you are away..

Also, it can be irritating to watch your DOM turning into a SUB into someone else hands (and watching that live)..

I hope that helps your friend... *smile*
*******fer7 Man
1,516 Posts
I think that mental BDSM could help a lot. Simple orders as: 10 minuts in front of the wall without any movement could be extremely exciting, intimate and creates strong link.
*******ibes Man
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Just lie down on the beach for 8 hours without sun tan cream.
*********nots Woman
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Quote from *******ibes:
Just lie down on the beach for 8 hours without sun tan cream.
That would be the worst punishment, considering my fair skin!
*********nots Woman
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Quote from *******fer7:
I think that mental BDSM could help a lot. Simple orders as: 10 minuts in front of the wall without any movement could be extremely exciting, intimate and creates strong link.
Absolutely! Mental side of BDSM is the strongest tool especially in distance. It’s the only way to create, not to force true submission.
I’m sure my friend would enjoy that particular instruction!
*******fer7 Man
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@*********nots I strongly think that submission must be by own desire, not by others desire or fear.
So… work on mental side in a good way developes trust, strenght and the referred desire. But always must be deserved, cause is the biggest gift that a person could receive from other.
****28 Man
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Yes ... you cam-communicate regularly and ... surprise you have sex with you new friend(s) here, on livestream. *holmes*
*********1984 Couple
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My little submissive went away on a business trip over the last few days and on her way home her flight got cancelled and had to rebook a later stop over. She is such a good girl I punished her by organizing a guy to go around meet her in an airport bar restaurant at Frankfurt and had her be a good little girl for him.
They had chatted online before so he wasn't a total stranger and I'm pretty sure she didn't think it was punishment as within 20 minutes of meeting him in the flesh for the first time I got a skype call with her on her knees in a car park toilet and his cock in her mouth. He fucked her so good and I'm now at the airport at home waiting to taste the fun my little sweetheart had when I give her a kiss to welcome her home *g*
Sometimes your subs can make you proud of them, I think the dirty little slut liked her punishment *g*
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********er79 Man
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Depending on how much of a techie you are, you might be interested in this thread:

BDSM: Cyber-Sex neugedacht!
****28 Man
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MAKE PORN MOVIES WITH A NEW PARTNER AND SHOW OYUR LONG DISTANCE
**********riter Man
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Ideas for long-distance punishment
Ideas for long-distance punishment

I generally give instructions with drawings for her to do when she is there at the business trip or away for whatever.
[ I'm drawing them myself she gets additionally wet by looking at them after the reads 😉 ]
Not punishments really because she knows if she will not follow the instructions, do as I please , punishment will be here when she comes back. She makes sure she always leaves a little undone 😜
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