Unicorn hunting- a term of derision with the polyamorists, a weekend hobby for the swingers. What’s the difference? What does it really take to achieve that hot, bisexual woman for a threesome?
Unicorn hunting- a term of derision with the polyamorists, a weekend hobby for the swingers. What’s the difference? Well, for the polyamorists it means finding a single hot bisexual female to enter into a completely fulfilling triad (from the couple’s wishes) with no requirements of her own, and for swingers it’s obtaining a threesome with a woman.
Both claim it’s difficult to the point of borderline fantasy, but is it really? Many single women on the swing scene will claim the title of unicorn, regardless of their predilection, simply because single women on the swing scene are rare. The reason they are rare is the key to all you need to know to be a successful unicorn hunter.
The fabled, fantasised, and overly-depicted in pornography MFF, seems like an easy entry point for your average swinger couple. It’s just one person, right? A bisexual woman should be happy to have a man and a woman at the same time, right?
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Often this simplistic view is the downfall of your novice couple. Women who want to play with a couple (even among the bisexual single swingers) are rare. The reason? Dynamics. Most people are using the wrong approach.
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As a couple, you’ve probably discussed what you are, and are not, comfortable with. What situations you like the idea of, what is a tough emotional limit for you and what kind of woman you are both attracted to. Already, you’ve narrowed it down. Your prospective unicorn will be inundated with dozens, if not hundreds, of messages per day from similar couples. How do you stand out?
Here is the very simple key, my sexy swingers. View it from her perspective. While she has 99 couples that day message her with a list of demands, requests, expectations, hard limits and rules? Find out what she wants. You have forgotten the other person in the three. If you want a toy who will meet your requirements with none of her own? Hire her. If you want equality, genuine affection and someone who wants to play with you both? Put her needs at the same level as your own.
Though there is seemingly a pervasive expectation for women to be bisexual in a way that men are often not (even performatively) your unicorn wants to know a few things for sure:
- That she is attracted to both of you
- That that attraction to each of you works individually, as well as in a pair
- That she is not going to be disempowered by the experience
- That she is going to have a fun, sexy, drama-free time with the both of you
It’s not asking a lot. She wants to feel special. Valued. Equal. If you can make her feel this way, you will be in the top 1% of the many messages she receives. You want your fantasy? She wants hers too. Why should that be less important?
Once you truly understand this, hunting unicorns is easy. You don’t need to hunt them. You just need to befriend them, value them, and let them have the power.
If you aren’t ready for that, your relationship isn’t ready for a threesome.
Threesomes can be wonderful, delightful experiences. And though there may be the odd exception to the rule, there is generally one overriding requirement that makes them epic: equality.
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