Q is for QueeningTake your throne

Did you know that facesitting was banned from pornography in the UK in 2014? This law was subsequently overturned. Do you think that sitting on and smothering your partner’s face with your genitals is a bit extreme or aggressive? It doesn’t have to be.

From Lara AKA Divine Theratrix

Queening is a sexual act that is popularly depicted in the Femdom genre of pornography. The Queen will typically be shown having lowered themselves down to rest their undercarriage on the waiting face of a prone submissive. For a Queen who is in the mood to embody the superiority they feel in a very physical and sexual way, this type of queening is ideal. Whereas the submissive will be laying still on their back, helpless, the Queen gets to sit up top and let their weight settle down and spread their genitals all over the face beneath.

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Lara AKA Divine Theratrix is non-binary person who uses she and they pronouns. They are a qualified integrative therapist and have been working in the sex support industry since 2018. Lara has her own playspace in London where she conducts conscious kink sessions and playshops for folks who want to learn, heal, and have fun. She is particularly passionate about reframing kink and bdsm simply as forms of adult play rather than deviant behaviour.
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To try this one, stand with your feet either side of your submissive’s head, then lower yourself down so that your legs are resting on the floor (or bed) taking some of your weight.

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What about a Queen who desires some relaxed and gentle devotions, while they rest their derriere on a sumptuous throne? For this Queen of leisure, a Queening Stool makes the perfect addition to their playroom. A Queening Stool is a low seat which fits over the submissive’s face and contains an opening to allow oral-genital and/or oral-anal stimulation of the Queen while seated. This position allows the pelvic floor muscles to relax and therefore partly exposes the labia minora to intimate touch. Delicious.

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How about a mischievous Queen who wants to tease and taunt their devotee, or otherwise give them directions to follow that provide the most pleasure? For this bossy Queen, strong thighs help to achieve a slight variation to the first position. Try this by squatting over your submissive’s face, so your feet remain flat on the floor, and you have control over how much contact your submissive has with your genitals. You can be maddeningly close and move towards and away, you can grind and move around, you can even get your submissive to support some of your weight with their hands while they pleasure you!

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